Tuesday, January 24, 2012

Love Languages...


I am over at How Does She today talking about this valentines idea- check it out here.

Today I made mister take a five love language test by Gary Chapman. Results....drumroll please...

Her score

9Words of Affirmation
10Quality Time
0Receiving Gifts
6Acts of Service
5Physical Touch


His Score
6
Words of Affirmation
8
Quality Time
0
Receiving Gifts
6
Acts of Service
10
Physical Touch

Hmmmm....


Here is a little recap of the five languages:



Words of Affirmation
This is positive verbal reinforcement. If this you then you love hearing genuine compliments.  You feel loved when your partner expresses appreciation for the small things you do. You may feel insecure without encouragement or regular expressions of approval.
Quality Time
Periods where you have complete attention. If this you then you enjoy sharing things you love with others, and feel special when someone else includes you in something they are passionate about. You often feel neglected without time spent specifically focused on each other, or doing something together that you love to do. 
Receiving Gifts
This is physical or visual symbols of affection. If this is you, then you respond to tangible illustrations of the love in a relationship. You appreciate thoughtful, personal gifts, not necessarily dependent on price. A home-made card or tiny trinket can speak volumes.
Acts of Service
This is doing things for a loved one. If this is you then you feel loved when someone goes out of their way to make things more pleasant or smooth for you. Examples include: doing chores, cooking dinner, taking care of something that would normally be your responsibility, chipping in without being asked. Most people can relate to this love language, though in very different ways, and it is extremely important to practice this love language out of genuine feeling, rather than duty, to avoid resentment.
Physical Touch
This is bodily contact between people. This love language encompasses all kinds of touch including being intimate, hugs, kisses, and cuddling. Physical contact can be its own form of communication. If this is you then you need your partner to recognize what kinds of touch are pleasant and which are irritating, and focus on increasing the former and reducing the latter.




What is your love language?

To take the quiz go here
besitos,



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